Saturday, May 23, 2009

The Preacher Guy

I live at the beach, and every weekend from here until it gets cold again, that guy will be at 17th Street on the boardwalk, in front of the Dairy Queen. He's standing on his two foot step ladder, and he has his karaoke microphone in his hand and he is "preaching" about God. You've probably seen him and walked on by. Well, I stopped to listen for a little while today, while I was waiting to meet my parents for dinner. His vocabulary consisted of words such as vile, hell, detestable, fornicators, sin, evildoers, and judgement. Do you get the picture? I have to say that the guys knowledge of scripture was impeccable and very commendable. He knew lots of scripture about judgement and hell and damnation.

But I didn't hear the words love, longsuffering, patient, and forgiveness. I wanted to hear those words but they never came. There he was along with his sidekick holding up the ten commandments and the rest of his crew passing out tracts. I wanted to ask him to be quiet, because I was somewhat embarrassed by his tone and his methods. I wanted to tell him that he wasn't helping people to come into a genuine transforming relationship with Jesus. He was just making people angry and feeding a stereotype that all Christians are judgemental and unloving. I wanted him to shut up!

But then I got a bit conflicted. I can only assume that he was following his convictions, and maybe he felt called to do this. You know, a voice of one crying in the wilderness! Who am I to judge, right? But at the same time, I think he is so totally off base in his approach. Where's the relationship that gives him the right to be heard? Where's the compassion for the fallen human condition? Where's the love? And then it hit me. Where are we? Where's the church, who should be loving and relating to a sick and dying world? If we were doing our job, then the preacher guy on his 2 foot step ladder in front of dairy queen wouldn't have to do his!

--God, please give us a heart that breaks for the things that break your heart!

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

I wish I could hit the long ball!

My dad took me on a golf outing to celebrate my birthday, and he even paid. We played in a preacher's best ball tournament over at Ford's Colony in Williamsburg. It's a beautiful course. We got paired up with Tim Cole from Virginia Vision and one of his buddies from church. I was definitely the weakest link on the team when it came to hitting the long ball. Even my 65 year old father can hit the ball farther than I can.... well at least farther straight. I can hit it along ways... but it has a tendency to slice a couple of holes over when I really let it fly. So we start on a par 5 and we get par, and then we get another par, and then we get another par. Then we started figuring each other out. We realized that when it came to putting that I probably had the best eye so I would go first, and give everyone the read on the putt. So we got a couple of birdies in a row, and then we ended up 4 under par on the front nine. By the back nine we had pretty much established a system of who would hit first and we followed that system for the rest of the round and we ended up scoring about 8 under par for the round, which we thought was pretty good, considering we hadn't played together as a team before.

The thing that struck me most was that we each played to our strengths. They didn't rely on me for the long shots. If they had, then our whole team would have been in trouble. But I have a really good short game, so I made some crucial putts and pitches. My dad was consistent and he just about everytime got us a good shot out in the middle of the fairway, and it opened it up for the other two guys to really let it fly. Our strengths complemented each other and we played a successful round of golf and we had a blast.

How about if each of us in the church played to our strengths? What if we each figured out what we are good at and focused the majority of our time doing those things. Since I'm a terrible musician, then I don't have any business up on stage in the worship band! Even if I'm a wannabe... I still stink and should do what I'm good at. So this week figure out what you are good at, really good at. It will probably be something that you like to do, too. And once you've figured that out, then volunteer to serve the church in that area of your strenght. If we all do that, then we will have a successful church... and we will have a blast serving together! Just a thought!

Be blessed.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Surf's Up!!


My doorbell rang at 8:15 on Saturday morning. I was sound asleep and so was everyone else in my house. We had planned a surf day, but hadn't anticipated starting quite so early. So we all grabbed some breakfast, put on the wet suits, grabbed the boards and headed over to the beach. The 2 guys who rang my doorbell had already been out in the water for about 20 minutes when we arrived. The surf was pretty flat and awful when we first went out, and the water was really cold. I asked myself on a couple of occasions what I was doing out in the cold ocean floating around on a nine foot piece of foam covered with glass!

After about 45 minutes, I caught my first wave. It was short and pretty pitiful, but I stood up and rode the wave for a couple of seconds! The two early arrivers, at this point, were getting out of the water. They were done, quitting without catching the first wave. They had all the equipment, and were suited up, but they just didn't want to go on any longer.

The waves started rolling in pretty consistently at this point in time. We rode wave after wave after wave for 4 hours! It was a blast. One of the funnest days, I've had in the ocean in a long time.

When it comes to the things of God and the church a lot of times people get all pumped up and ready to go... They are gung ho and then when things don't quickly go their way, or God doesn't move the way they think he should move, they quit. They give up and move on. They look for something bigger or better... They get out of the water. But God moves on his time, not ours. He sends the waves of success and fulfillment and growth and blessing. And if we hang out long enough, we will be fortunate enough to ride the wave! So wherever you are, just stay faithful, just wait on God... the waves are coming!

Be blessed.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Legacy

Last night I went to dinner with my parents to celebrate my Father's 65th birthday. He's in pretty good shape for 65, and I hope that I can wear it as well as he does. We're eating dinner and talking and it strikes me that after over 40 years in ministry, ministry is still one of my dad's favorite topics of conversation. He's excited about the ministry that he's involved in at Lifepointe Christian Church in Toano which is well into its second year of life, and he's also very excited about the ministry that his two sons are involved in. You can see it in his eyes, that ministry is not just an occupation or a job to pay the bills, it is his heart.

I hope that when I get to be his age, I'm just as excited about ministry as he is. That when I'm 65 I'm not thinking about retirement, but I thinking about that next building project or that next big ministry campaign. Thanks dad for your heart for God's church and your example to us younger ministers! May we always share your enthusiasm for the church!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Funny Thing Happened Today


So, I'm at Farm Fresh today getting some groceries and their is quite a ruckus because there is a leaky bag of sugar in somebody's cart. The head clean up lady is going crazy because she can't figure out where it is coming from. And then an older lady pushing a cart comes up to her and asks her for direction to an item or something, so she walks with this lady from the front to the back of the store, looking for the item. And I watched as that sugar leaked right out of that woman's cart directly behind the clean up lady. Both women were oblivious to what was going on.

They had to back track one aisle and she saw the mess, and was irate. "We just cleaned this up!! Where is it coming from?" Still not realizing that the mess was following her around. This time she sent someone else to clean it up!

I think sometimes in our lives when they get messy we look for external reasons or we try to blame others from far off, but more often than not, the mess is following right behind us. We don't see it but it is right under our noses. Pride has a way of fooling us into thinking that we aren't affected by sin or we don't struggle, or even that we have no control over the forces that are around us. And sometimes we expect that someone else will clean up the mess that we created or that we allowed to get out of control.

I told the second clean up lady who the culprit was, but by the time the mystery of the leaky sugar was solved... all the sugar had already leaked out of the bag! Hmmm, interesting how much commotion a little sugar can cause. It's also interesting how much damage a little sin unnoticed can cause. Lesson for the day: Watch out for the leaky sugar!!

Be blessed.






Wednesday, April 15, 2009

God Said What?

I'm starting a new sermon series on Sunday about the life of David and I've been reading in the Bible about David and some of the highlights and "lowlights" of his life. That guy was all over the place. He was at the height of dedication and love for God one minute and the next minute he was sinning like crazy. His morals were sometimes questionable but God called him "A man after God's Own Heart"!

We've been taught that God loves us if we are good and if we look like a Christian and we act a certain way, but it seems that God looks past our external actions and deep into our heart. It seems as if God understands our struggles with sin and the flesh. To me this is comforting, that God could call a man like David a man after his own heart. Because, more often than not, I'm a man like David, who struggles with sin and failure and shortcomings. It's so cool to me that God chose to honor a nobody like David, and chose him to be King over all of Israel and tagged him with this description: David is a man after my own heart, he will do what I ask him to do. (Acts 13:22)


To read how David was chosen, check out 1 Samuel 16:1-13.


Be Blessed

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Easter 2009

I was really nervous about preaching my first Easter Sermon at Real Life this past week. I didn't know exactly why, but I spent the whole morning just uptight about the service. But, when the band kicked into worship, and I stood in the back and watched the people come streaming into the auditorium, I just felt this peace, that I can't really describe.

I think I was more worried about being disappointed than I was about allowing God to do "His thing." I had heard that there were going to be quite a few families out of town and that all total there would be like 30 or 40 of our regular folks that would be gone. That's 10% of our regular Sunday attendance, that's a signficant number! So I guess I kind of bummed myself out before I even arrived. But the cool thing is that God showed up in a big way, and he also brought a lot of people with him! 470 people to be exact! And the service was meaningful, and powerful, and the Holy Spirit was present!

I think I learned an important lesson this weekend! You do what you are supposed to do and let God do what He is supposed to do! Our job is to be faithful and to give God our best, and it is His job to provide the increase. There are certain things in ministry that you have no control over, but you must understand that God is Sovereign! He is in control and he is independant of the constraints that we put on ourselves. I'm not going to worry anymore about things I can't control because I serve a God that asks me to simply be faithful. He will take care of the rest!

Be blessed!

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Christmas Web Site

Check out the Advent Conspiracy website. What can you do?

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Thursday, November 27, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #17

Happy Thanksgiving!

Spend some time to day thanking God for all the blessings he has given you!
Be blessed!!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #16

In preparation for Sunday's message, I would like to encourage you to check out the investment calculator.  This will give you an idea of how much you should save and what kind of return that you may be able to get on your investment.  Remember, we are going to plan for the future when we will be completely debt free and in the continuing process of building wealth.  We will also be more generous than we ever imagined.  Because we are not going to be normal!  We will say "nope" to things we don't need and avoid debt at all costs!  

I pray for your safety if you will be traveling today, and that you have a great Thanksgiving tomorrow.  See you Sunday!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #15

By popular demand here yo go!!

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Monday, November 24, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #14

Hey gang. Sorry I didn't post yesterday but I was exhausted after a great day at church. I am truly amazed to see how God is working at Real Life. I want to start this week looking at the whole idea of making investments, and making your money start working for you. To get us rolling this week I would like for you to read Dave Ramsey's investment strategy.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #13

Free Cars for Life! Check out this video!!

Mind Your Own Business Post #12

Sorry I missed Friday. The day got away from me! So today I will do two posts. I'd like for you to read this interview with Rick Warren. It's an interesting account how he continues to see God working out his purpose in Rick's life. He's got an interesting perspective on money in there too!!

Check it out!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #11

Creating a realistic usable budget is always a difficult thing to do. Today I want to give you a couple of resources that might help you in that regard. There is a simple application on daveramsey.com that will help you just kind of lay out your budget, and I've included a link to a more in depth budgeting program that may be of some help to you. It is a free program and if you are going to use it, I recommend that you read some of the tutorials before you start entering numbers. It is a powerful program, but may be a little confusing if you just start puching numbers in.

Ingenmoney Pro
Good luck!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #10

This video speaks for itself!!


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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #9

In a time where all we hear about is how businesses are struggling, it is nice to run across a story about a business that is suceeding, even in a tough market environment. We can learn some meaningful financial principles by looking at how sucessful businesses manage their finances. Check out this video.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #8

Today we are going to look at the final step in the Seven Steps to Financial Freedom. You can check that out by clicking here.

Step #7


There is also a pretty cool tool out there that you can download for free that will help you as you work on your debt snowball that we talked about Sunday. Click on the link below to download. You will need Microsoft Excel to run this worksheet.

Debt Reduction Calculator

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #7

What a great day today at Real Life! I thought the band did awesome and it was so exciting to see 4 brand new families join the church. I've gotten some really good feedback on this sermon series and I'm really excited to see what God is going to do in all of our lives from this point forward. Remember, he has entrusted you to be a manager in his business, so we must make wise decisions with the resources that God has given us.

This afternoon I did a test walk through at Target.... looking for that popcorn maker and I made it out without making a purchase! Remember if you can say "nope" for a little while, later on in life you will be able to yes to whatever God calls you to do!

Aight. We are moving on to Baby Step #6 in the 7 steps to financial freedom. Check it out!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #6

Baby Step #5 is on the way. Time to plan for your children's education!

College Planning!

I hope to see everyone at Real Life on Sunday morning, 10:00 a.m. at Great Bridge High School in Chesapeake. We will be looking at the topic, "Act Your Wage". I hope to see you there.

Click on over to the Real Life website to get directions!

Friday, November 14, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #5

Alright, here we go with Baby Step #4. It's time to start investing. Check out Dave's advice. Baby Step #4


Check out the awesome investment calculator!!

I got that "scary house" video done. I'll show it to you on Sunday at Real Life!!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #4

Today we look at Baby Step #3. This one will take some hard work and creativity. If you have any great ideas for jump starting your savings plan, please leave a comment for this post and help the rest of us out!

Baby Step #3

You may also want to read this article.
"The Secret to Saving Money"

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #3

Today we are going to look at the idea of taking care of our debt! See what Dave Ramsey has to say about the debt snowball!
Debt Snowball



Dave has another great resource that you can download to help you with budgeting! It is a monthly cash flow plan and you can download a copy of it by clicking the link below!
Monthly Cash Flow Plan

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #2

This week we are going to go through the 7 Baby Steps to financial freedom. I encourage you to read each step carefully and explore daveramsey.com while you are there! Good luck!

Check out Step #1!

Monday, November 10, 2008

Mind Your Own Business Post #1

Today starts our journey to financial freedom! I want to challenge everyone to get "gazelle intense" as we get focused on our finances and making our business plan.

The Scripture references that I referred to on Sunday are:
Luke 16:1-13 The Shrewd Manager
Matt 25:14-30 The Stewards

For the next seven days we are going to look at Dave Ramsey’s simple plan to financial peace. Each day we will look at one of the 7 steps to Financial Freedom. Just click on the link each day and enjoy reading Dave’s common sense solutions to some of our most common financial mistakes. Also look for additional daily resources. I challenge you to begin working your personal business plan. What’s your vision? Click here to see who Dave Ramsey is!

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Coming Soon to a Church Near You!

Beginning on November 9, 2008 we will begin a series called "Mind Your Own Business". We are going to explore God's view of money and personal finance. I want to encourage you to attend services each weekend as we address issues such as budgets and debt and some ways that you can be at peace during this financial crisis that is affecting our nation.

Each day during the series this blog will be updated with free resources that you can use as you explore your business of being a steward of God's money! So check back every day.

See you Sunday!

Monday, August 4, 2008

Lead Minister

Today I began my new job as Lead Minister at Real Life Christian Church. It started out like any other Monday morning, with emails to return, sermons to prepare, and people to check on. Then some of the positive comments from the voting ballots from yesterday were shared with me, and I was completely overwhelmed. My personal favorite was, "He Rocks!!" Thanks Sandy.

After months of uncertainty God has very clearly and definitively answered any questions that I had about being called to this position. The words of encouragement, the love I've felt over the past number of months, and the close to 98% positive vote of affirmation have effectively eliminated any seeds of doubt that I still had.

Thank you for your confidence in me. I'll try not to disappoint you! The best is yet to come at Real Life Christian Church and I am so excited about being a part of it. Together we can be a church that brings honor to God and effectively reaches out to people who are lost. But it will take everyone in our church working together to fulfill the mission that God has called us to.

I look forward with great anticipation to Sunday morning, August 10, 2008. My first Sunday morning as Lead Minister. I hope to see you Sunday.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Thursday Night





Today I had the opportunity to tour a migrant camp out in one of the villages.  The conditions were unbelievable, people piled into some very poor living conditions.  There is a local church who is doing some major outreach into this community.  It's a project I would like to get involved with.  We saw some pretty cool house dedications this afternoon.  We had dinner at Mario's tonight and we had a pretty cool conversation about church and church history and the subject of baptism came up.... On the way back from dinner, Nona, our friend, said she was ready to get baptized.  She had been baptized as an infant but was ready to take this next step in her commitment to Christ.  That was cool.  Check out the pictures.  


Monday, July 21, 2008

Week Number 2 Sunday night

It is Sunday night and we are back in Mexico.  Drew is sitting next to me playing WOW on his mac as I write this entry.  Our group is gone and this experience is totally different from last week.  I love having our people here, and seeing them experience the joy of serving those less fortunate.  And they are a whole lot of fun to be around.  This week I'm going to try to explore some of the new ministry opportunities here in Ensenada.  By the end of the week I'd like to go back and video tape the 2 families we built for last week to see how they are getting settled in to their new homes.  I'll try to have that video for next Sunday morning.  I'm going to go back and visit a couple of the other families that we have built houses for as well.  

It should be a good week, but I already miss the Real Life gang!  I'm looking forward to being back in church on Sunday morning.  I miss you guys!  See you soon.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Wednesday

It's 7:00 a.m. on Wednesday morning and I'm exhausted.  I can smell the coffee brewing in the other room, and I can hardly wait for my first cup.  My body is sore and the sting from the sunburn on the back of my neck reminds me that is there every time I turn my head.  But, I can't think of anywhere that I'd rather be today.  We made really good progress on our house yesterday.  Our group is working so well together.  Our family that we are building for is very gracious and they've provided food and drink for us every day.  Yesterday the husband, bought ice cream bars for each of us!  It was a cool treat on a hot day.  

Last night they brought the taco stand to the camp, and we had authentic Mexican tacos... so good, just watch out for the salsa... it's sooo hot!!  I can see some new friendships building this week, and I'm excited about the positive effects that this trip is going to have on our church and our youth ministry.  Today is going to be a great day.  We will finish the roof on the house, and get all the dry wall up and mudded in preparation for tomorrow's dedication where we hand over the keys to the family.  Amazing how it goes from a concrete slab to a house in 4 days!  What a transformation.  I'll post pictures tonight.  Pray for us, that we will finish well.  The coffee is ready so I'm signing off for now.  

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Monday Night

We finished our first day of building today on the job site.  The family we are building for has 3 kids.  They are pretty shy.  I'm leading the house project this year without the assistance of one of the Mexican house leaders.  Juan Martinez is close by to give extra instruction when needed.  We made good progress today.  All the kids did great.  We had a cool chapel tonight and Mickey did a great job leading the discussion at our group time.  I'll write more tomorrow.  Turning in for the night.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Pre Mexico

It's Saturday night and I am anxiously awaiting the arrival of the Real Life Mexico Team.  It's been a whirlwind weekend so far.  I flew into San Diego on Thursday night.  We arrived at around 7:30 p.m. pacific time.  (10 hours in the airport and in the air!)  Then I flew out at 6:25 on Friday morning to go to Milwaukee for Sam's wedding.  (8 hours in the airport and in the air).  The wedding was nice and then I headed back to Milwaukee to spend the night and catch a 6:15 a.m. flight back to San Diego.  (7 hours in the airport and in the air).  We picked up a couple of groups and then ate at In and Out Burger, so that made everything better.  We sat by the pool for awhile at the Kings Inn and met an interesting family from Denmark.  They are here for 6 weeks touring the West Coast.   I'm going to try to blog over the next two weeks to let everyone know how things are going here in Mexico.  I'm excited about Real Life tomorrow morning.  I know Josh and Brandon will do an awesome job leading the service.  

We will be attending The Rock San Diego tomorrow morning.  We went there last year, and now they are in their brand new building.  It should be a great day.  http://therocksandiego.org/